shy / introvert

SHY -
easily frightened away / timid.
suspicious; distrustful.
reluctant.
not at ease in the company of others.

INTROVERT -
a shy person.
a person characterized by concern primarily with his or her own thoughts and feelings.

Today, i thought i would look up what 2 of the most frequently used words to describe me mean.
Hmm.
Most or all of it seems to be fairly accurate.
What bothers me is not the words, but the events / circumstances that have played thier part.
Now, most around me (family) think that it can be undone very simply, i wonder if it can.